I met a 31 yo Latino guy last night. Another online connection. It didn't work out. "Rob, I'm sorry, you're just what I'm looking for. I'm attracted to guys with a more masculine body." He rubbed my leg and crotch. "You really seem like a nice guy," he said. Oh, that makes me feel better. I retreated home, tail between my legs.
The guy on the left -- this is what a 48 yo guy should look like.....the stereotype. Hairy, masculine bear. The guy on the right is me. Totally smooth is great if you're 22, but not if you are 48. I just don't fit the stereotype for what a 48 yo guy should look like. I have people asking me, "Are you Asian? or "Is that really your pic? Because it looks more like a 15 yo than 48." So what do I do? Bathe in a vat of Rogaine?