Sunday, October 27, 2013
Lower Your Standards
I was chatting with a friend about not meeting anyone lately. There are 4 million people in my MSA. Half of those are men. Let's say 5% of them are gay. That's 100,000 gay men. Even if 20% are in my age range, that's 20,000 possibilities.
"Maybe your standards are too high," he said jokingly, but I knew it wasn't a joke. That's a possibility. I did get messages from these guys and didn't respond. Maybe I should reconsider....lol. I know of many good looking guys, far out of my league, who are on-line seemingly forever....maybe they've set the bar too high?
He's right. I could meet a new guy everyday if I wanted. Problem is, they're not guys I want to meet.