This close friend of my bf invited him to go to the park because it was warmer yesterday and some cherry trees had started to blossom. A few guys from the "gay group" me them there. One of the guys is called "the sex addict". He's not shy about sharing his adventures. He's also not shy about giving sex advice. My bf was telling me about how this guy is always hooking up with two or three guys. "A week?", I asked. "NO, a day". In fact, when they were leaving this guy said he wanted to get home quickly as there was still time for one more hookup today.
I've met this guy one time. Very clean cut, Asian guy who has a good job at a bank. I never would have guessed this lifestyle. His life, his choice. He is protected and seems to know what he's doing. I don't want to judge as it's not my business, and many people would probably judge me as having a super boring life. Not exactly sure how to describe this, but people have different levels of risk taking, boldness or bravery.
The other guys, including my bf, seem so interested in his stories. When I suggested to my bf that he seemed to like hearing this guy's adventures, he shut me down and said he doesn't want to hear about it. I don't believe him. I have to admit, I'm a bit curious to hear what he's up to.
The guys were asking my bf about our trip to Mexico. "Did you guys meet anyone?" they asked. Meet anyone? What does that mean? Like for a three-way? We didn't even think about it. I guess we are both super boring. Interesting that they nonchalantly brought this up as a normal thing to do.
Two more weeks until our NYC trip. Just me and my bf this time. His close friend is not coming. I think no money. I like his friend, but this is fine with me.
Eight weeks of working out pretty consistently since we returned from Mexico. Let's see if my bf thinks I've made any progress. I feel like I have. I know I have. I am less focused on weight now and more focused on abdominal measurement at the belly button.
I wanted to do some travel in October, but not sure that's a good idea with the war going on and likely jet fuel shortages. TBD -- no need to decide yet.
After reading this, my life is as boring as hell. But I will take boring over what you've described. Enjoy NYC.
ReplyDeleteHaha....I'm mostly happy being boring!
DeleteThe sex addict's tales may sound exciting but how does he really feel when he is home alone after the last hook up? I bet he probably doesn't talk about the ghosting he experiences or less than satisfactory experiences.
ReplyDeleteYou're right....he's probably very lonely. There's no connection, and these guys are just using him.
DeleteSome guys just like to screw. It matters not if they are hetero or homo. Society seems to think that all gay guys are whores and there is no monogamy. Sex stories are interesting to most, I think it's mostly curiosity. Look at Brian from Queer As Folk, he slept around a lot but seemed to be content with his life. Deep inside I think he was empty but I could be wrong. Nothing wrong with being horny or boring - or both at the same time. Have fun on your trip and enjoy your time away!
ReplyDeleteCompared to "Sex Addict", my life is definitely boring and very domestic. Nothing wrong with making the best of one's youth as long you don't do something stupid. At least he can look back and say, "been there, done that". I don't feel that I am missing out.
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