The Sex Addict

 

 

This close friend of my bf invited him to go to the park because it was warmer yesterday and some cherry trees had started to blossom.  A few guys from the "gay group" me them there.  One of the guys is called "the sex addict".  He's not shy about sharing his adventures.  He's also not shy about giving sex advice.  My bf was telling me about how this guy is always hooking up with two or three guys.  "A week?", I asked.   "NO, a day".  In fact, when they were leaving this guy said he wanted to get home quickly as there was still time for one more hookup today.  

I've met this guy one time.  Very clean cut, Asian guy who has a good job at a bank.  I never would have guessed this lifestyle.  His life, his choice.  He is protected and seems to know what he's doing.  I don't want to judge as it's not my business, and many people would probably judge me as having a super boring life.  Not exactly sure how to describe this, but people have different levels of risk taking, boldness or bravery.

The other guys, including my bf, seem so interested in his stories.  When I suggested to my bf that he seemed to like hearing this guy's adventures, he shut me down and said he doesn't want to hear about it.  I don't believe him.  I have to admit, I'm a bit curious to hear what he's up to.    

The guys were asking my bf about our trip to Mexico.  "Did you guys meet anyone?" they asked.  Meet anyone?  What does that mean?   Like for a three-way?  We didn't even think about it.   I guess we are both super boring.  Interesting that they nonchalantly brought this up as a normal thing to do. 

Two more weeks until our NYC trip.  Just me and my bf this time.  His close friend is not coming.   I think no money.  I like his friend, but this is fine with me. 

Eight weeks of working out pretty consistently since we returned from Mexico.  Let's see if my bf thinks I've made any progress.  I feel like I have.  I know I have.  I am less focused on weight now and more focused on abdominal measurement at the belly button.     

I wanted to do some travel in October, but not sure that's a good idea with the war going on and likely jet fuel shortages.  TBD -- no need to decide yet.