I've heard over and over again that gay relationships have a short half life. The spark goes out and the excitement with sex dies out. One or both of the parties often seeks satisfaction somewhere else, and the relationship opens. Does this mean the relationship is over? I'm not sure this is always the case.
I remember reading another blogger who was in what seemed to be a stable relationship with his husband. He mentioned that periodically he spent time with another guy "who gives me something I can't get from my husband". What does that mean? Not sure. He wasn't in a sexless marriage though.
Is there a difference in outcomes if the relationship is "dead bedroom"?
If both parties have reached consensus in having open-relationship, and also make some ground rules, I believe the relationship could last long. When comes to having a romantic relationship, it has a broad spectrum in defining their own way of being in the relationship. Too subjective to comprehend, but it is what it is. Most of the OF pornstars are the prime example in this scenario.
ReplyDeleteHow is an OF star a prime example? Didn't understand.
Deletethey have a partner but still working as adult entertainer with others. You can say that they are just working for the sake of contents. But, in reality, not many people (non porn actors) would accept their partners having sex with others for porn. Most of the time, these couples whose relationship are stable and long-lasting are both working as adult pornstars.
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