我该去嗎？
I said goodbye to my bf this morning. He's been visiting for a few weeks, and it was good to have him here. He is heading back to China this weekend to visit his family. He doesn't have his return planned yet.
He's been hounding me for the last few weeks to come to China for two weeks. I'm torn.
I don't like these long flights to Asia....unless it's business class in Singapore Airlines :). That's the biggest downside. China is inexpensive, besides the flight I won't spend much. I'm not crazy about the food.....but as long as I can find those seasoned spiral potatoes and fried rice I''l be fine.
I still have a travel visa for China that's good for two more years.
He wants to go to Shenzhen and Kunming. I think it would be an interesting trip, but I'm not sure I want to go.
Your heart want what it wants. If you are not ready or just don't feel like going, then just don't go. Cause, in the end, your bf could tell your reluctance being there in China when you were with him. It is nice being reciprocal since he had traveled to visit you, but if your heart didn't want it then just tell him. Since you are no longer young like him, travelling can be very tiring for you esp when the journey is over 12 hours. I know I sound a bit selfish here, but it is better telling him how you feel about it rather than dreading yourself throughout the journey you did not even like it at the first place. I am pretty sure your bf is mature enough to understand.
ReplyDeleteHey, from another perspective, if you don’t go now, then when? Time and tide wait for no men and so, travel when you still have what it takes to travel. If you plan the travel to learn, experience and savour what China can offer, and more just because of your bf, I’m sure the motivations and energies will be different as traveling opens our eyes in ways we can never imagine.
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