It's about 95% now. I will move to NC......near Charlotte. This will happen quickly.
Harry is upset. Long distance relationships are hard. He's not going to leave Canada. He really can't. He's on a path to permanent residency that isn't possible for him in the US. I will be super busy for a year figuring out my new job. We will still see each other. For sure he will visit, and I will go to Toronto.
I ask him the question, "Did you enjoy the time we were together?" Doesn't that mean a lot? Isn't it better than having spent the time alone?
Relationships are almost never perfect. Things happen.
Andy is another complicating factor in all this.
All this change has been stressful for me. I have like no sex drive. We're not as active sexually and I'm not jacking at all. This is a stress point between Harry and I. He would do it twice a day if I wanted. Not sure what's wrong with me....all I can think of is stress.
moving IS stressful, as is a new job, a new city, a new experience. get settled in CLT first, and see what develops. I hope your move goes well.
ReplyDeleteActually, moving is more than stressful. I never, ever want to move again unless someone does it for me.
ReplyDeleteI never want to move again either. I have moved two times in the last three years, and I am DONE. Good luck!
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