Thursday, February 11, 2016

Over 100

I was chatting online with a 21 year old guy.  He's kind of good looking, certainly not one of the best looking guys I've met.

He's had over 100 sex partners.    At 21??  Is this common?

His attitude is like "why not?"   It's what's the harm as long as I'm careful to play safe?

The key question for me is "how will I feel about this when it's over?"  Will I be glad I had sex with this person?  Or regret it?  The problem is that you usually don't know going into the situation.  If I walk away feeling good about what happened, then I'm ok with it.  It's the times that I come away saying, "why the fuck did I do that?"  that I really regret.

When both of us are really into each other that makes it good.  When he says "I want to see you again" that makes it good.  When there's a new friendship, that makes it good.


  1. Its the regret that comes after we do things that haunt us. :)

  2. You'd regret things you did halfheartedly.

  3. Hmmm, there are people like that around... Well, kids, that is. With not much emotion or f*cks to give. I don't quite like it, but it is what it is. And you should do what works for you.