Remember Steve? He's a guy I sort of dated a few years ago.....read here
He's a Korean guy who is working in the US. Since I've been living in Canada we sort of lost touch. I hadn't seen him in a few years but he does occasionally text me. Since he's back and forth between here and Korea he sometimes changes phone numbers.
Anyway, we just had dinner. He has an apartment not far from me in the US.
He's married now. He has a one year old daughter. He showed me pictures. Very cute. There will probably be another. He's by himself on the US right now....wow is that dangerous. His wife is joining him soon with their daughter.
During the brief time we were at his apartment he unbuttoned my pants and fondled me. Didn't go any further. Then we left for dinner.
We had a frank discussion. These feelings are not going away. What will you do now? He said once his wife and daughter arrive he will be so occupied he won't even think about it. He is playing with a guy right now on the side. Ok, right.
His final statement: "My parents are really happy"
really common these days when the husband away for trips for long period of time, there would always be side sex ensured. It's not right to do but no one should know. Best it's to keep for themselves.
ReplyDeleteReading this gave me mixed feelings. The marriage, the parents being happy, the 'on the side'.....
ReplyDeleteHopefully it's not a loveless marriage.
ReplyDeleteSad situation for sure. The person I feel most sorry for is her.
Deleteeveryone has to manage himself - within the context of himself as an individual and himself as a function of his larger community (family, society, etc)... we will naturally have our views, but we will have to leave it to the individual to manage.
ReplyDeleteso yes, i feel for the wife. but there're many perspectives and i supposed only he knows what he is doing and how (ir)responsible he is.