Saturday, January 2, 2016


As I woke up yesterday I fumbled with my remote to turn on the TV.  This lady was on the Today Show talking about online dating.  I found her suggestions piqued my interest and made a lot of sense.  Her name is Bela Ghandi and I've been watching some of her videos.  So much of this is common sense, but I guess we all need reinforcement.

Her first tip:  90% of your success is based on your online picture.  Really?  I think for the gay community it's 99%.

Anyway, for now I'll watch some of her videos rather than spring for the $5,000 to $10,000 fee for the online dating academy.


  1. Funny how we both posted about online dating :) Happy New Year BTW

  2. I think you can do it without her.

  3. I like her suggestion to make two lists, one for what you want and another for what makes you happy, and then tells you to throw the first list out. Amen to that. I think too many people focus on checking boxes instead of being open and letting a connection develop naturally, the way you do with friends.