tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3804497757570739111.post6096616551144462405..comments2024-03-19T18:12:03.162-04:00Comments on I Just Wanna Be Happy: The Good SonRBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17761591668246881356noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3804497757570739111.post-36223685359265751862015-06-24T03:36:39.200-04:002015-06-24T03:36:39.200-04:00I'm Korean and I came out to my parents when I...I'm Korean and I came out to my parents when I was 17. Now I am 23 and they've accepted the fact that I'm gay<br /><br />I mean.. Koreans can be very conservative, but he should try and tell his parents. I don't think it's about disappointment; I think he is just scared. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3804497757570739111.post-83753575011442476482015-05-26T11:26:39.496-04:002015-05-26T11:26:39.496-04:00I simply don't want to tell my dad for now...
...I simply don't want to tell my dad for now...<br /><br />for the fear of a heart attack. He already suffered a heart attack before, and knowing his temper, he wouldn't take a coming out confession calmly.Victor Saudadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03137129619666178427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3804497757570739111.post-73023057217506854002015-05-24T21:54:33.475-04:002015-05-24T21:54:33.475-04:00This may surprise you, but I relate to the parents...This may surprise you, but I relate to the parents. They naturally want their posterity to continue. It's tough for their son to assist with that to the extent that he's only with another guy. <br /><br />He should find a broad-minded girl who wants to be a mother enough to go into an unconventional marriage. Specifically, he should offer to marry her and be the father to their children, but with no commitments to give up his deal with you on the side. <br /><br />Children are worth whatever inconveniences this may pose.... and it would make Steve's folks happy. If he can produce the grandchildren they might even be able to accept that Steve's deepest relationship is with you. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3804497757570739111.post-8140356194593374982015-04-30T18:24:49.862-04:002015-04-30T18:24:49.862-04:00Another way to look at this is that he doesn't...Another way to look at this is that he doesn't need to tell them. At 35, he should (in theory at least) have the self-confidence to know that his parents can push girl after girl on him, but that's all they can do. He really shouldn't be losing any sleep just because they're pushy.<br /><br />My guess is that they worry or suspect he's gay. You could be right that if he came out, they might surprise him. After an initial period of disappointment, a sense of relief might kick in because they can stop badgering him.TwoLiveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801244463128618355noreply@blogger.com